"Have you ever played a character of the opposite sex. Why or why not? If yes, how did the other players react?" - Reverb GamersIn the 10+ years that I have played D&D, I have never played a male character - until now. I am playing a male dwarf named Agnes Aleguzzler in my friend Kevin's Pathfinder game. I think the reason that I have always played a female character, up until now, was that I was the only female in the group. Honestly, it doesn't make a lot of sense because the guys in my group have never had an issue playing female characters but for some reason, I have always felt obligated to play a female character. I am not the only girl in Kevin's group and so I felt comfortable playing a male character this time.
I remember the first time one of the guys in my D&D group picked a female character, I was a little surprised. They were so nonchalant about it, too because it really wasn't a big deal. It was great when Randy would play a snooty elf female because he'd even pitch his voice a little higher and his mannerisms would be a little more effeminate. Rob has also played many female characters and he was really good at it, too.
If there is any awkwardness about me playing a male character in Kevin's game it's probably due to the fact that Agnes is kind of a lech and he hits on all of the females. It's actually kind of fun to play that kind of character because when I play my female characters, I tend not to be that way. I find it easier to "flirt" as a male character than I do as a female, maybe because I know that it won't be taken seriously.
I do different voices for my characters (PCs & NPCs) as well. It helps not only to get myself into character, but also to help my players differentiate between characters.
ReplyDeleteAs far as "flirting," I'm just not comfortable enough to do that, regardless of my character's gender. :-D
Flirting in-game can lead to all sorts of uncomfortable situations if you're not familiar with the people that you game with. Although, I've gamed w/some of them for over 10 years so I know they won't take it seriously. I'm just really awkward when it comes to that sort of thing - even in real life!
ReplyDeleteBut there's just something about Agnes that makes me comfortable with the flirting. Maybe it's because it's so over-the-top and he's supposed to be awkward that I have so much fun with it :)